okay let me give you some foundation. my boyfriend wants to be a journalist. hes really good at writting.. okay.. so he has a myspace. i dont. he also has this best friend. and yes his best friend is a girl and they used to have a thing for each other before we got together. okay so on myspace he posts these blogs.. one like every week. and sometimes two maybe even three at a time. since him and i have offically became a couple he has yet to post a blog about our relationship. to top it off every two out of three of his blogs are written to his best friend. i mean i love my boyfriend.. and we wanna move in together. we spend everyday together. and when he writes his blogs he doesnt even include me in any of them. should i be mad?? im hurt.. but is this really a big deal? ive brought it to his attention before but he has done nothing about it. and when i tell him all he says is that he doesnt wanna waste his time talking about it. is he trying to hide our relationship??
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
Wow, that is hard...ok myspace is a relationship killer (so I like to call it). A lot of females like to send messages to men even though knowing he is 'taken'..Grrrrrrr that pisses me off. Anyhow, my ex has myspace and I used to go thru his comments that his female friends posted and I did not like most of the comments. I used to see, "Hey sexy, whatcha' doing later baby?" or "mmmm I would luv those lips on my lips" OMG are they crazy? Hello he's taken, what part of: STATUS: did they not understand?! lol
What really hurt me was that he had a very close female friend (they dated in the past and of course we're intimate) so she would post these sexual comments and I would be oh my god jealous...I asked him if he had feelings for her and he would reply, "no, we are thru, just friends, stop worrying so much, I love you" (like in your case). I believed him but I knew he STILL had feelings for her otherwise those comments wouldn't have made him blush.
I think you should tell him this, "Look I know you and she are very good friends but I should be your best friend. If you're in a relationship and you say you love me then there should be no other before me." Let him know how you really feel. Don't act like a baby and talk soft and kitty kitty, be real and let him know you're not fuck1ing around. That ***** is trying to take your man...slowly...with her retarded comments. I would tell him to end it with her. I made my ex end his friendship because trust me you think a guy and a girl can really be best friends? (especially knowing they had something in the past)? No! I do not believe in male and female best friends unless they're getting it on or want to get it on.
So tell him just like that because he shouldn't be writing about her in his blogs..exposing it to all his other friends that she means more, UH UH! wrong. Let him know your true emotions. You're not being jealous or over reacting you just want a stable relationship without wh0res ruining it. So do what you have to do and handle it!... speak your mind! If he does not bother to change, dump him because it'll only get worst because they will definitely do something that will hurt you more. If he can't sacrifice that for you then he's not worth it...P.S. I dumped my boyfriend %26amp; now he's begging like a lil wh0re to get back with me but too late, should of made sacrifices for me before.... tata... Good luck!
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
Duh, if he was proud about it don't you think he'd write about it??
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
I must admit, that is very weird. Why doesnt he want to waste his time writing about you, but wastes his time writing about the other one? Anyways, you did not mention what kind of things he actually says about his friend. It is totally normal for u to be hurt, since you know he had something for her.
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
kick him to the curb.
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
Yes he is hiding it if he talks about her and not you. Myspace is free join up and see how he likes that you are on there and maybe he will get it. Luck to ya.
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
I'm sorry but you need to just enjoy your relationship and get over myspace, myspace isn't that important anymore and if he doesn't write about you it's probably because he's not into telling other people that go on between him and his private life i think that you should just drop it and enjoy your time with him. You shouldn't let something like that get in the way, its ridiculous.
Is myspace messing up our relationship??
he's trying to straddle both sides of the fence, trust me. its not fair to you. you should be concerned.
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